How to Talk Dyslexia with your Child
For approximately 30 years, from the 80s to the first decade of the 21st-century, the stigma of "mental illness" and dyslexia grew. During my school days in the 60s and 70s, not much was known about dyslexia. It was more of a novelty to most, so I didn't hear the ludicrous/synonymous association of the two terms – dyslexia and mental illness. However, by the time the mid-90s had rolled around, the stigma was more than prevalent. In fact, when I coached my dyslexia students one on one, too many parents told me that they wanted help, but I could NOT mention the word Dyslexia to their child. Despite knowing dozens upon dozens of dyslexic historical achievements, they did not want their child nor the community to know what their child’s issue was. Things got so ridiculous, that when I called on schools between 2000 and 2011, the term “Dyslexia” had become such a misnomer that this category of students was referred to by the politically correct term of "Special Needs.”
So much has changed in the last decade. Not only has the dyslexic population count estimated by the experts grown from 5-10% to today’s estimated population of 15-20% globally, and the stigma associated with dyslexia has been eradicated from our educational system. Today's society is even appropriating educational money at both the state and federal levels to support recognizing that the dyslexic mind is needed going forward. However, the question remains of how best to teach the dyslexic child to learn to read and write.
The stigma, money and the growth of the dyslexic population are immaterial to how to talk Dyslexia with your child … although financial support is gladly welcomed!
What your child needs to know is that:
They have a gift or a special group of talents to learn how to use to their benefit.
Your child is associated with a group of individuals that has contributed mightily to the world in the past, as well as present.
And yes, dyslexia will continue to contribute and impact their life as well as to the world going forward.
How many famous dyslexics do you know? You may be surprised when you look at the list. They have made their mark on society. In brief they have excelled in the disciplines of: art (photography, painting and even writing), drama (acting and filmmaking), music, sport, strategy (politics and military), science (engineering, architecture as well as invention), and a talent that can't be categorized – intuition (knowing what comes next).
I recommend that you point out to your child these past and modern-day heroes/achievers. Let your child know they too can achieve whatever their gift is. However, they will have to work to discover their talent and then develop this special gift(s). Most importantly, they need to know they are one of the lucky ones that has the gift of seeing and doing what has not been done before.
BTW… Anyone would want to be dyslexic if there wasn't a reading and writing challenge associated with it. ~ Bill Allen
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